"Are We There Yet?" Traveling with a Child With Autism by Pamela Levac : Compliments of Autism Asperger’s Digest Magazine

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Are We There Yet
By Pamela Levac

Reprinted with permission from a featured article that appeared in the November/December 2007 issue of Autism Asperger’s Digest magazine. Learn more, www.AutismDigest.com.

This post is Family vacations can be stressful under the best of circumstances. Throw a child or two with autism into the mix, and it can seem overwhelming and perhaps easier to just stay home. But more and more families who have children with autism spectrum disorders are traveling to all kinds of destinations near and far. Though vacationing with a spectrum child requires a good amount of planning, it can be a fun and rewarding experience for the whole family.

Preparation is key when traveling with a child with autism. It is essential to begin planning the vacation long before the actual date of departure. There are many things to consider, from getting the child acclimated to the idea and the destination to choosing appropriate lodging or ensuring your child will have familiar food available.

Child with Luggage

Kid with Luggage by Bondidwhat via Flickr

When making travel and hotel plans, take into account your child’s particular sensory issues. Book rooms on the quiet side of the hotel, arrive at less-crowded hours, or bring along a kit filled with ear plugs, familiar toys, video games, snacks, comfortable clothes or whatever else might be needed to ease the transition.

Talk to your child about the upcoming trip and involve him or her in making plans. Have the family explore the destination beforehand: visit internet sites, get library books, travel brochures, and perhaps even request photos of the hotel room you’ll be staying in. Some parents create story books that describe the vacation from start to finish, including each day’s activities. If you are driving, map out a route for your child to follow, with all the stops (including breaks!) marked along the way. This can ease travel anxieties and make a long trip more palatable to the concrete thinking mind of the spectrum child. Be sure to talk about the vacation frequently to calm worries and rev up excitement, or read your travel story book regularly.

 As every parent of a child with ASD knows, routines and predictability are like air and water for a child who doesn’t handle new situations easily. And, travel to unknown destinations can literally starve these kids of the familiarity that is their lifeblood.

Go back to your story book and be sure to emphasize things that will remain the same. We’ll still eat meals together; you’ll have your favorite T-shirt; there will be your beloved cereal for breakfast. If vacation involves a repeat destination year after year, for instance to a family condo, the transition turmoil will get better with time. Peggy, mother of Eric who has autism, says “The first few times you go someplace new, it’s hard. He wants to come home so badly. But each year it gets easier.”

Danielle, the mother of Pierre and William, both with autism, takes her family on an annual car trip to visit relatives at Christmas time. She offers the following advice: “Keep the events as simple as possible. They like to do the same things every year. Create new traditions.”

Airports, planes and trains can be sources of fascination, distress, or both for children with autism. Peggy says, “Eric finds airports and planes to be interesting, but delays, long lines and schedule changes are difficult.” Some delays are unavoidable, but traveling off-peak, bringing along books on tape, hand-held video games or puzzles can help. Scan the area for a quiet space to retreat to when you notice signs of overload. If you can talk to airport personnel ahead of time or bring a copy of your child’s diagnosis, you may be able to sidestep waiting in long lines. If you must wait, one of you can take the child aside to distract her with stories or a snack.

Choosing to travel as a family alone or with other people is also an important consideration. If you do decide to vacation with others, Peggy recommends traveling with people who “get it.” Pair up with friends or relatives who you know can deal with your child’s need for space, regularity, simple routines and familiar food. Also make sure you travel with someone who can handle meltdowns without getting upset or offended. Somewhere, sometime, they will occur.

Danielle strongly believes that spectrum children should not be hidden away. “The world is vast and diverse. Because individuals with autism tend to not want to socialize by nature, I believe it is important to impose the reality of having to accept and deal with the fluctuations of daily life.” Though it may be challenging at times, it is worth getting out there and seeing the world, both for the child with autism and for everyone he meets.

….This Post Continues Tomorrow….

One Response to "Are We There Yet?" Traveling with a Child With Autism by Pamela Levac : Compliments of Autism Asperger’s Digest Magazine

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